To any one that i offended or worried with a post this morning i am sorry. it was not ment to do that. I was stupid and let emotions build up on me. This was not good and i think i made people sound like they was horrid people , which they are not, in fact they are good people, kind and very careing. they have to do what is best for them. Me i should be a after thought. they come first me second. (or 3rd or 5th or what ever number is down the line) I'm such a fool some times